Comments on: alone at a party:

By: ryan

ryan — Thu, 08 Jul 2010 05:11:22 +0000

you captured the exact emotions im feeling now after my break up, the whole depression and feeling of uncertainty. It always feels good to know your not alone in this world and that other people are feeling the same way.

keep up the blog !!!!!!

By: Kat

Kat — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 22:01:47 +0000

Pretty much put my exact feelings into words, nice to know I’m not the only one feeling like this!

Love your blog.

By: elise

elise — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 15:37:59 +0000

i call it finger fuck..but yours is nice too

By: Michelle

Michelle — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 20:24:24 +0000

Love your blog on the break-up and family and friends. Very inspired by your honesty. You turned this obstacle into an opportunity. Perhaps the friend could only wish to be with someone with such a loving heart and instead of reflecting that he projected anger. You will ultimately be with someone who will not only reflect the love you have to share, but all those in his life will be a reflection of that as well (including family and friends.) You seem to be a great navigator of your life, keep navigating and maintaining your loving heart

M xx

By: kim

kim — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 00:28:57 +0000

There is a community of the spirit.
Join it, and feel the delight
of walking in the noisy street
and being the noise.

Drink all your passion,
and be a disgrace.

Close both eyes
to see with the other eye.

Open your hands,
if you want to be held.

Sit down in the circle.

Quit acting like a wolf, and feel
the shepherd’s love filling you.

At night, your beloved wanders.
Don’t accept consolations.

Close your mouth against food.
Taste the lover’s mouth in yours.

You moan, “She left me.” “He left me.”
Twenty more will come.

Be empty of worrying.
Think of who created thought!

Why do you stay in prison
when the door is so wide open?

Move outside the tangle of fear-thinking.
Live in silence.

Flow down and down in always
widening rings of being.

RUMI

Lovers think they are looking for each other,
but there is only one search: wandering
this world is wandering that, both inside one
transparent sky. In here
there is no dogma and no heresy.

The miracle of Jesus is himself, not what he said or did
about the future, Forget the future.
I’d worship someone who could do that.
On the way you may want to look back, or not,
but if you can say “There’s nothing ahead”,
there will be nothing there.
Stretch your arms and take hold the cloth of your clothes
with both hands. The cure for pain is in the pain.
Good and bad are mixed. If you don’t have both,
you don’t belong with us.
When one of us gets lost, is not here, he must be inside us.
There’s no place like that anywhere in the world.

RUMI

If you are looking for answers read his work
xoxo

By: Steph

Steph — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 04:26:59 +0000

You read my mind!!! I LOVE your blog.

By: someone

someone — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 02:33:36 +0000

for the first time, and I come to this blog a lot, i agree with something that you alexi said. The last part kinda makes sence. You actualy are getting better. keep on

By: brook a

brook a — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 02:25:05 +0000

life is about getting up onto that big mountaintop in the sky and setting up camp forever. i love this post like i love what i dont know what/who is around the corner. this post seems to be an acknowledgment of understanding this and not worrying about it….

By: thewords

thewords — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 14:45:31 +0000

This is a great post. I’m a guy who actually got dumped via text message (yeah, i guess that actually happens? who knew) after a 6 month relationship. I know the feeling you’re talking about and I couldn’t agree with you more. Every single party or event that I have been to, from Long Island to the upper west side, has been exactly that feeling. I can relate to it all, except of course, a conquest of guys rather than girls, and finger blasting myself. very nice.

By: alexi you make me laugh

alexi you make me laugh — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 01:55:27 +0000

fingerblasting – that’s ingenious!