Comments on: the monster asks you about love- please help:

By: Leticia Collard

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By: Lydia

Lydia — Thu, 03 Feb 2011 01:49:34 +0000

I’m not into writing, so I’ll keep this short.

My grandmother was engaged, and broke off her wedding 3 days prior because she didn’t want to marry the man.

A few months or weeks later, one of her friends set her up on a blind date, despite much protest from my grandmother. After one date, there was an immediate affinity between them, and they eloped after only knowing each other for 2 weeks.

They were married for 40 years; until my grandfather died. My grandmother, to this day -almost 20 years later- has never remarried or even considered remarrying.

So, that kind of love existing isn’t impossible, merely unlikely.

Hope that inspires you or something,
-Lydia

By: Jerome

Jerome — Wed, 27 Oct 2010 18:14:31 +0000

Alexi

There is nothing better than those first days, weeks, months of the roller coaster ride. The incredible sex on the kitchen table, tearing off clothes. Everything else in your life is on hold; romance is here. It’s like tilting into a paradise. Do not ever let that mindset leave you Alexi. That is what we all want. That is what you want from every man you meet. It might happen it might not.
There will be many romantic roller coasters in your life. However, there is gravity and it will pull you down. You will not undress each other and attack like vampires. You will be in bed first or Mr. Right will be watching a ballgame when you jump in. The roller coaster ride is over and so it should. It is a primal love to enjoy.
A memory that will last forever. I can’t wait for it to happen again, I can’t wait for my friends to hate me. I am not available. I cannot wait for my house to smell like a woman. It may lead to decisions later when marriage is presented by one of you.

Secondly, have you taken into consideration that many people who have an innate ability to communicate and frame people’s fears are distracted from that calling by school, degrees and licensing? You display an amazing ability to communicate. Your videos are soothing and goofy and disturbing. Your talent to act comes from your ability to relate and absorb. I know this would all sound much better in a Bela Lugosi accent, you must write Alexi, you must write.

By: Donna

Donna — Sat, 09 Oct 2010 23:22:01 +0000

I never comment on things like this, but I’ve been feeling the same way. It’s easy to like guys, they’re great, they’re hot, they’re easy to figure out. It’s easy to hang out with them and date them and hook-up when feelings don’t get too involved. But big loves are rare. The feeling you get when you’ve known someone for so long and your heart still starts pounding whenever you see them, is rare. People you truly and honestly care about don’t come along everyday, but you do know when you find them. And it takes a lot of work to maintain something like that, when both of you have so many of your feelings involved. There are so many complications that relationships like that are fragile. The way things are when you find the person you’re meant for make so much sense, but great loves don’t last. People become so bedazzled by love and so invested in the happiness that those relationships bring, that they’re bound to fall apart when someone starts to care too much or when things start to get too real. There’s a difference between love and marriage, and if you’re looking for something that lasts, you’ll have a better chance with marriage, because great love is fleeting…that’s what allows us to romanticize it.

By: Eugen

Eugen — Sun, 15 Aug 2010 00:01:13 +0000

You’re confusing lust and attraction with love. Love is not the feeling you get when you have his dick in your mouth (or vice versa). That’s the boycrazy feeling.

If you’re lucky I imagine you reach a plateau of contentment, and you both _work_ at it.

You know the paradox, you get one thing when you feel like you don’t need it. You get the girl when you don’t feel like you need to get her. I think it’s true about love too.

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Wow, I used the name of the blog in the comment,I’m so intelligent, I’m like Russell Brand with a receding hair line. I wish I’d made a video, but I’m too hairy to appear on video. Plus, I’m only interesting in writing.

By: Stephen

Stephen — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 08:35:53 +0000

Love?
Let me tell you about love.
Love lasts forever, but not the love you’re talking about. Love won’t linger in any one shape or form, but rather, it changes and comes to mean something different as years go by, and the whole point of falling in love is to have someone with you who will go through those same changes with you.

My mom gave me a lot of advice growing up, but what she told me about love changed my life forever: It is possible to fall in love with someone who still isn’t right for you. It’s something everyone who dates should have to come to terms with.

The butterflies in your stomach and endless longing to spend every minute of your life with a person that you’re talking about. Feeling like you never want to get out of bed once you’ve lain down together. Dreaming up elaborate weddings and sexy nights of passion: These things do not last. It’s the things that come after this part of a relationship that hold the key to the future.

Thirty years from now, the man you love is not going to be the one that makes you scream his name at four in the morning. Thirty years from now, the one you love will be the one who makes you feel comfortable with the world, like your parents did when you were growing up. He’ll be the one that you go to for reassurance and approval in everything you do. He’s the one that will make you confident, and he’s the one that you won’t have to talk to every five minutes to know he’s there to help you always.

Ask yourself if you’ll still love the one you’re with when he starts to get old and can no longer take care of himself. Or what if he broke his back and could never walk again? Would you stay with him? Would you be up to the challenge?

If you can honestly say the answer to that question is yes, THAT is love that lasts forever.

By: Irving

Irving — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 06:19:53 +0000

wow, people write a lot, if I knew english as they I could write a lot too.
You’re such a great speaker, you should give some conferences about your opinion abour love and life.

Irv.

By: Aaron

Aaron — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 22:16:29 +0000

Hello Alexi!
I think the idea of romanticism is a great ideology, but at the same time can be an albatross we all come to carry, depending on the person, which include their personality, environment, the way you grew up, all that mambo jumbo.
Growing up I was always the guy that was a huge romantic, and I’d go out of my way to impress either my crush or girlfriend in any way, but as time went on [heart broken, blah. blah] and great advice from my old man, I learned that you’ve just got to move on, fish in the sea, just have fun you’re young, play it cool.
Going into college I dated a few girls, broke up, blah blah, and decided like anyone at that young visceral age to just have fun with the guys and slay in the single life, and BOY did I have the time of my life. Did I mention it helped with my funk, because prior to that decision the girl who I was infatuated with broke mine.. well yes, it did, because like you I was obsessed with finding a mate, the perfect mate.
As time went on I met a girl, one that I tried playing it cool with, now this wasn’t any type girl because I never took her home or anything like that, but one that I kept in hindsight, but on one night when she begged me to go out dancing with her [at the time I was into my art, focused, I did my best at denying any type of relationship, heart on the shelf], well I decided, “What the hell.” We’d been talking for a month or so, but on that night it just hit me like an age old proverb waiting in the wings to kick my ass, all that advice my old man gave me was now in the form of an epiphany.
Now six years later we’re still together, living in a small humble apartment and going strong. The point is from one hopeless romantic to another is it’ll happen when it wants to and when it does you’ll have to make the decision of either wanting it or not. Now we have our problems and sometimes want to murder each other, and have broken up a few times [only early in the relationship, not so much at all], but at the end of the day we can only find ourselves being together.
So yes there is hope, if you want it, without looking, make sense? I think life can lead us into so many crossroads, but the ultimate is taking charge when it’s presented to you, and ultimately sticking to your guns. I mean it’s the most universal feeling that transcends to every generation: LOVE, how can you deny when it’s REAL.

By: Caroline

Caroline — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 21:30:42 +0000

Take a look at this article about old folks in love…I think it has some really valid points.

http://lifestyle.msn.com/relationships/staticslideshowrs.aspx?cp-documentid=23367571&GT1=32023