When it comes down to breaking up with someone, (i just realized it sounds weird and very impersonal saying someone, instead of saying your boyfriend/girlfriend) over messages, i think that the person doing the breaking up is acting upon impulse; without much though to what they’re really thinking.
i believe the person lets little things he/she see’s get to him, and without much debate on what the real problems in a relationship are.
however, sometimes there really isn’t much relation in a relationship, if the person truly cared about his/her and really wanted for things to work out, he/she would spend the time on fixing the relationship, rather than breaking up spontaneously out of the blue.
but i suppose there can be many ways of looking at this situation, perhaps he/she doesn’t have the confidence, to break up in person, or doesn’t have the heart to see what he’s doing to you, or just wants to get out any way possible because he’s questioning himself on other levels.
times have changed and its really easy to jump into relationships, but there is no relationship without relation.
don’t let these things bother you, this was simply a step forward. think of it as a sign from the universe
-Maybe its for the best.
-Maybe you will run into a really sexy boy today, who will flatter you with tons of compliments (although that could either be taken as creepy or normal?.
-Maybe the boy that broke up with you will come running back (ignore him for a week).
-Maybe inside you weren’t happy with the relationship either, but got too comfortable, so at least one of you made the move to end things
(Or)-Maybe I’m completely off and need some more none fat coffee latte to wake myself up…
1. a guy that brakes up with you via fb/msn/bbm even sms it’s not worth IT
2. that guy probably didn’t pay for your coffee/cocktail on your first date
3. it was okay to insult the guy on the video in this case. but you look very coo/smart/nice for not having done it. i love you
4. i am reposting this video right away
5. people: be nice to people!
Love it! Well not that a boy broke up with you that is sad but you handled it very well. You were so articulate and everything you said was so TRUE. I think you explained perfectly how many people feel after someone with little compassion breaks up with them. Remember you’re not really alone cause so many people have felt the same way. Love you, hope you feel better!
I am glad my sentiments are being echoed amongst the boards, I totally want that girl to get a blog of her own, she was sooo well spoken and so nail on head and my eyes definitely welled up in the public library! She’s amazing and he must have been a complete twat. Remember the best revenge is to live well xo
Awww, breaking up over Facebook? Loser. I hate how technology allows guys to be even bigger wimps than they already are. Man up, DUDE! Look on the bright side, you are totally cute and your finger nail polish rocks. I’m pretty sure you have to experience at least a few jerks before you get to the good ones, so at least you’re about halfway there
when someone breaking up with you via technology wise
there douche that dont have the gust to tell you, to your face
P.S. her suspenders are ill
oh yeah wen someone, says they would love you in another universe that crushs your soul too
“2. that guy probably didn’t pay for your coffee/cocktail on your first date”
@mar That’s complete bullshit. Too many inept guys lacking in the confidence department are suckered into consumerism and the concomitant wage slavery because they’re convinced spending money impresses girls. Maybe it does–but usually just the spineless ones caught up in the game of shiny shit, jersey chasing, and overpriced juices.
You know what’s worse than someone who breaks up via facebook chat? The one that invites you to her birthday, via facebook events. And confirms it via AIM, and text. But then uninvites you without updating you on facebook, without texting you, without calling you, without driving to your house and telling you. Simply by doing nothing. By not responding to anything for one week, and then expecting you to “take the hint.” The one that makes you feel like a complete jackass for showing up at a crowded hollywood bar to look for her when you forced your friends to clear their schedules so they could accompany you to her birthday. And then blowing you off. That’s really cool.
When it comes down to breaking up with someone, (i just realized it sounds weird and very impersonal saying someone, instead of saying your boyfriend/girlfriend) over messages, i think that the person doing the breaking up is acting upon impulse; without much though to what they’re really thinking.
i believe the person lets little things he/she see’s get to him, and without much debate on what the real problems in a relationship are.
however, sometimes there really isn’t much relation in a relationship, if the person truly cared about his/her and really wanted for things to work out, he/she would spend the time on fixing the relationship, rather than breaking up spontaneously out of the blue.
but i suppose there can be many ways of looking at this situation, perhaps he/she doesn’t have the confidence, to break up in person, or doesn’t have the heart to see what he’s doing to you, or just wants to get out any way possible because he’s questioning himself on other levels.
times have changed and its really easy to jump into relationships, but there is no relationship without relation.
don’t let these things bother you, this was simply a step forward. think of it as a sign from the universe
look further and do better <3
I like what you said. And I agree with you.
-Maybe its for the best.
-Maybe you will run into a really sexy boy today, who will flatter you with tons of compliments (although that could either be taken as creepy or normal?.
-Maybe the boy that broke up with you will come running back (ignore him for a week).
-Maybe inside you weren’t happy with the relationship either, but got too comfortable, so at least one of you made the move to end things
(Or)-Maybe I’m completely off and need some more none fat coffee latte to wake myself up…
Either way, goodluck!
_ Jamie
i’m sorry you’ve experienced a breakup like that. i’m a newer single who felt like an empty house post-breakup.
it gets easier.
<3
aw this girl is a little QT! I’m sorry some jerk hurt you like that <3 really good vid xx.
1. a guy that brakes up with you via fb/msn/bbm even sms it’s not worth IT
2. that guy probably didn’t pay for your coffee/cocktail on your first date
3. it was okay to insult the guy on the video in this case. but you look very coo/smart/nice for not having done it. i love you
4. i am reposting this video right away
5. people: be nice to people!
Love it! Well not that a boy broke up with you that is sad
but you handled it very well. You were so articulate and everything you said was so TRUE. I think you explained perfectly how many people feel after someone with little compassion breaks up with them. Remember you’re not really alone cause so many people have felt the same way. Love you, hope you feel better!
you are adorable and well spoken. sorry your heart got broken but i’d rather feel things than not — don’t you agree? i bet someone grabs you right up!
I think this girl needs to have a blog, too. Awesome.
Hang in there, girl. You are beautiful and chic and he didn’t deserve you anyway.
isn’t she a precious gem?! i nearly cried when i first saw her vid!
you are super lovely, possibly the loveliest person to guest star here and i wish you to find someone truly mindblowing and rad
Hey look Alexi, I mentioned you in my Tumblr. http://remakethehorizon.tumblr.com/post/466929494/okay-so-this-is-my-gift-to-you-the-gift-of
how could someone break up with you? you are ADORABLE!
someone broke my heart recently, it ‘effin BLOWS. i can totally relate. it still hurts all over, everyday. i totally feel your pain, babydoll.
what a level-headed woman. i was here, nodding my head the entire tire.
MARTHA!!!! i loved it! thank you so much! xoxo
I am glad my sentiments are being echoed amongst the boards, I totally want that girl to get a blog of her own, she was sooo well spoken and so nail on head and my eyes definitely welled up in the public library! She’s amazing and he must have been a complete twat. Remember the best revenge is to live well xo
Awww, breaking up over Facebook? Loser. I hate how technology allows guys to be even bigger wimps than they already are. Man up, DUDE! Look on the bright side, you are totally cute and your finger nail polish rocks. I’m pretty sure you have to experience at least a few jerks before you get to the good ones, so at least you’re about halfway there
http://www.firednfabulous.blogspot.com/
This girl is such a doll.
good job, my love!
xx
this was great. and i am LOVING her suspenders!!!
when someone breaking up with you via technology wise
there douche that dont have the gust to tell you, to your face
P.S. her suspenders are ill
oh yeah wen someone, says they would love you in another universe that crushs your soul too
urgh FACEBOOK CHAT, I say GOOD RIDANCE, you can do better!
well said, girlfriend.
Beautiful video. I completely agree .. this is something I needed to hear. Thank you for posting lady, and THANK YOU for making this video Ashley!!
i loved this. what you said and the way you said it were beautiful and humerous. if you had a blog i’d read it.
“2. that guy probably didn’t pay for your coffee/cocktail on your first date”
@mar That’s complete bullshit. Too many inept guys lacking in the confidence department are suckered into consumerism and the concomitant wage slavery because they’re convinced spending money impresses girls. Maybe it does–but usually just the spineless ones caught up in the game of shiny shit, jersey chasing, and overpriced juices.
You know what’s worse than someone who breaks up via facebook chat? The one that invites you to her birthday, via facebook events. And confirms it via AIM, and text. But then uninvites you without updating you on facebook, without texting you, without calling you, without driving to your house and telling you. Simply by doing nothing. By not responding to anything for one week, and then expecting you to “take the hint.” The one that makes you feel like a complete jackass for showing up at a crowded hollywood bar to look for her when you forced your friends to clear their schedules so they could accompany you to her birthday. And then blowing you off. That’s really cool.