Aww, that girl was cute. I have a hard time believing you can know what REAL love is at that age, but I guess at the time it seems real. But, I didn’t have my first real bf until college, so what do I know!
I’m 21 and convinced that the boy I loved when I was 16 was a legitimate love!
Besides, the more tainted we are, the more difficult it is to love freely.
Love is blind. Even as romantic as a couple can be, if they fall in love in a wild frenzy they seem blind to any issues there may be. They just want each other. Eventually the frenzy wears off and they begin to notice the little things, the things they always overlooked. There is no simple answer because relationships based on “frenzied love” won’t last. Its a question of whether the “relationship” will last. Love is only part of the equation. It’s up to the couple to continue working on the relationship. It requires maintenance, communication, understanding. Just like a car requires oil changes, new tires etc. Even if you have kids, still gotta go on dates or send love letters etc. When we become lazy and/or ignorant, that’s when stuff falls apart.
I have to admit I’m taken by your request for stories of passionate love lasting. I’m still in love after 22 years even though my wife and I have separated. Were what ya call dating, trying to work things out but having trouble at this time due to disagreements on how we raise our now separated children. See, two years ago I was out of work in a bout of depression and in the hospital and my wife left me. After much tazeing and medication the staff at the hospital calmed me down, sadly I incurred some damage to myself as the room they locked me in was concrete and steel. My love so great, my hurt so strong I beat my hands till they were both broken and ghastly. i don’t want to scare you as you seem so sweet a person, but I was quite mad with the loss. We have all been there but i am still so attached to my wife of so long.. Now I sit in a dilemma of maybe moving on as we still cannot agree on how we raise our children. She offers no discipline and never says no, to anything or anyone, and I have to be talked into breathing.Can love last, surely it does, only death has separated many loves of life. But understand that any relationship is based on mutual trust, love, and understanding. I blew it myself by my selfishness and lack of understanding, my wife blew it by always giving in and ignoring my opinion. We are both at fault and there’s much more to it than I describe but leave it there….Oh, Your very striking and beautiful, just wanted ta place myself on your fanlist, lol.
I think you can be in love at a very young age, I know I was, but while I was very much in love, I didn’t know what I wanted out of life at that age and it turns out that I needed to do my own thing, meet new people and have different life experiences. This inevitably took its toll on the relationship and while we are still good friends, our love couldn’t overcome that. Having said that, my grandparents started dating when they were 15/16, married when they were 18 and are still together, and very happy today – my Grandpa recently told me he loves my Nanny more now than he did when they first met – so happy endings ARE possible in the right situation.
Haven’t you already asked this question? Haven’t we covered this ground a zillion times before? Also the story about you in New York has been told before. Is this ground hog day?
Your lisp is fucking sexy. It’s like listening to someone with an english or australian accent. You don’t know why, but it makes you want to fuck their brains out while they say random things.
Or, in your case, as you yell “Yesss” over and over. Or any other way more creative things with the letter “s” in them.
She will be listening to a lot of the smiths when they break up! Can u know what love is and also have a curfew of 11?
i believe you can, Andy you jaded thing
You need to watch Paper Heart, girl! With Charlyne Yi and Michael Cera! It answers all your questions.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1331064/
Aww, that girl was cute. I have a hard time believing you can know what REAL love is at that age, but I guess at the time it seems real. But, I didn’t have my first real bf until college, so what do I know!
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Dear Alexi,
when will you return to your riveting story about the male blogger? I’m so curious.
<3 Abby
Nina, you’re cute. I’ve seen you and Rudy together and I don’t care how fresh it is, or how young you are, I can feel the love gurl.
that one girl with the SMIth’s shirt she totally practiced that speech
I’m 21 and convinced that the boy I loved when I was 16 was a legitimate love!
Besides, the more tainted we are, the more difficult it is to love freely.
1st vid: AWWW! And I completely agree
2nd:I liked what she was saying, but I wish she wasn’t reading a speech word for word. Where’s the emotion and inflection in your speech, gurl?
Love is blind. Even as romantic as a couple can be, if they fall in love in a wild frenzy they seem blind to any issues there may be. They just want each other. Eventually the frenzy wears off and they begin to notice the little things, the things they always overlooked. There is no simple answer because relationships based on “frenzied love” won’t last. Its a question of whether the “relationship” will last. Love is only part of the equation. It’s up to the couple to continue working on the relationship. It requires maintenance, communication, understanding. Just like a car requires oil changes, new tires etc. Even if you have kids, still gotta go on dates or send love letters etc. When we become lazy and/or ignorant, that’s when stuff falls apart.
i dunno. im cynnical about young love. but it may be because i’m jealous…
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I have to admit I’m taken by your request for stories of passionate love lasting. I’m still in love after 22 years even though my wife and I have separated. Were what ya call dating, trying to work things out but having trouble at this time due to disagreements on how we raise our now separated children. See, two years ago I was out of work in a bout of depression and in the hospital and my wife left me. After much tazeing and medication the staff at the hospital calmed me down, sadly I incurred some damage to myself as the room they locked me in was concrete and steel. My love so great, my hurt so strong I beat my hands till they were both broken and ghastly. i don’t want to scare you as you seem so sweet a person, but I was quite mad with the loss. We have all been there but i am still so attached to my wife of so long.. Now I sit in a dilemma of maybe moving on as we still cannot agree on how we raise our children. She offers no discipline and never says no, to anything or anyone, and I have to be talked into breathing.Can love last, surely it does, only death has separated many loves of life. But understand that any relationship is based on mutual trust, love, and understanding. I blew it myself by my selfishness and lack of understanding, my wife blew it by always giving in and ignoring my opinion. We are both at fault and there’s much more to it than I describe but leave it there….Oh, Your very striking and beautiful, just wanted ta place myself on your fanlist, lol.
I think you can be in love at a very young age, I know I was, but while I was very much in love, I didn’t know what I wanted out of life at that age and it turns out that I needed to do my own thing, meet new people and have different life experiences. This inevitably took its toll on the relationship and while we are still good friends, our love couldn’t overcome that. Having said that, my grandparents started dating when they were 15/16, married when they were 18 and are still together, and very happy today – my Grandpa recently told me he loves my Nanny more now than he did when they first met – so happy endings ARE possible in the right situation.
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Haven’t you already asked this question? Haven’t we covered this ground a zillion times before? Also the story about you in New York has been told before. Is this ground hog day?
Your lisp is fucking sexy. It’s like listening to someone with an english or australian accent. You don’t know why, but it makes you want to fuck their brains out while they say random things.
Or, in your case, as you yell “Yesss” over and over. Or any other way more creative things with the letter “s” in them.
you might want to check out this Video Series on Men’s advice for love to see what the other gender thinks makes a long-lasting relationship.
http://themansguidetolove.com/