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WEDNESDAY MARCH 23, 2011

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the blind leading the blind (part 58):

1. Girls: get rid of the subliminal pressure society has ingrained in you since before you were born. If you NEVER have kids or get married, you are not a failure. Figure out what you want in life/what kind of woman you wanna be/ what your dreams and aspirations are, and then: make them happen. If having kids and marriage are things on the list, great. If not, great. Make peace with yourself. Also: know that what you want for yourself might totally morph and change, which is fine. There’s no ONE way to be or live life. Just don’t give up and be a quitter and PRETEND you’re happy.

2. Contrary to what has been deeply ingrained in my subconscious because of my upbringing, I’m learning that men have feelings. Especially the ones I end up attracting.

3. Live your life or document it? Sometimes you have to make a choice and say to yourself ‘No! I’m not gonna twitpic e’erything I see!’ I know it’s hard. But be strong.

4. So, a guy you DO NOT want to be with, who used to love you doesn’t love you anymore. Perfect! Unless you’re a fucked up asshole, and his FINALLY being over you hurts your ego/pride. If you’re not in love with a guy who used to love you, don’t be annoyed he doesn’t love you anymore and then go out of your way to manipulate him into loving you again. You already broke his heart once! And you don’t even want him! What’s your deal?! Stop it!

5. Eating bread is not gonna kill you. NO! NOT at ALL… it’s just gonna make you really FAT.

6. JK JK! It’s totally OK to eat bread from time to time. Just don’t eat an entire pizza by yourself, even if it is vegan pizza night at m cafe! Unless you JUST ran into TWO of your ex boyfriends on the same day and you’re feeling especially emo/fragile/and shaken by it all and ‘love’ in general; Wondering where it all went wrong, how ephemeral love can be, who the REAL/NEXT love of your life is gonna be and ultimately who you’re gonna end up with/who’s right for you. With questions like ‘Where is he?’ ‘Who is he?’ and ‘Have I met him yet?’ flying through your mind. PS: I am not talking about myself. Except I am. Shhhhhhh.

7. Sometimes the most toxic people, who make you feel horrible, and who should be cut out of your life are your parents. They’re just harder to detect, cuz they’re hiding under an umbrella called ‘family.’ Don’t. Be. Fooled. If they’re toxic… CUT THEM OUT!

8. When you don’t return phone calls or a text, even though you’ve literally done nothing, you’re still making an important statement to the person you’re ignoring. Whether you mean it or not, it screams: ‘Fuck you. You are not a priority in my life.’ Just letting you know.

9. It’s much cooler/chic’er/classier/better to sport a simple canvas tote bag as opposed to some knockoff of a designer bag (i.e Chanel, Proenza Schouler, etc) Even if it’s way cheap, expensive, or a good fake and others might NOT be able to tell the difference, YOU’LL always know. And that’s enough.

10. It’s TOTALLY OK to complain about banal, first world/white girl problems as long as you tack on the obligatory:  “I mean, I know people are dying in (insert country/tragedy here), but I’m really annoyed they put onions on my hamburger! I specifically said ‘NO ONIONS!’ Ugh!” to erase your guilt, and seem as if you aren’t as shallow as you are. It’s called covering your ass. Do it! I know you want to!

DUDE of the DAY: FOOTSTEPS in the DARK!

dude of the day: footsteps in the dark! from alexi wasser on Vimeo.

TONIGHT: ‘BOYCRAZY RADIO’!

CALL ME TONIGHT

WEDNESDAY MARCH 23, 2011

DURING BOYCRAZY RADIO

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and life dilemmas!

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Dude of the Day: UCLA!

Dude of the Day: UCLA from alexi wasser on Vimeo.

BEHIND THE SCENES: UCLA HIPSTER PANEL from alexi wasser on Vimeo.

TONIGHT: ‘BOYCRAZY RADIO’!


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WEDNESDAY MARCH 16, 2011

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ALEXI’S GUIDE TO A BETTER LIFE: Make yourself cum, make the world happy!

ALEXI WASSER’S GUIDE TO A BETTER LIFE! from alexi wasser on Vimeo.

make it YOURS mondays!

If YOU wanna make next monday YOURS, click HERE for details!

and for the love of god, make it fucking YOURS god dammit! xo

DUDE OF THE DAY: AARON ROSE!

DUDE OF THE DAY: AARON ROSE from alexi wasser on Vimeo.

Aaron Rose is an artist, a filmmaker, a curator, and all around creative, interesting, great guy/man about town!

I’d seen and heard about Aaron for a while. But we’d never really met or had a proper chat.

Upon first glance, I immediately found him dark and intimidating-ly alluring. I don’t even know why.

Maybe it was the way he carried himself. He seemed so confident, so unaffected. As if the bubble in which he exists in is impenetrable. Like he’d pick you up for a date on his moped and fuck the shit out of you in the park like a scene from ‘Peggy Sue Got Married’ or something. And he doesn’t even HAVE a moped… i don’t think. To me, this ‘vibe’ is the epitome of bad-ass!

He was standing across the room at a gallery, talking to some other tattooed guy. No big deal. But to me, an immediate impression was made. On my soul.  This was intimidation in the BEST way. The kind that makes you say (in your quiet brain voice) ‘I wanna make out with that guy! He looks all moody and broody.’

If I hadn’t had a boyfriend at the time, I would have totally begun playing the whole ‘How do I get this dude to think I’m sexy and neat and interesting and desirable’ game. You know, the game where you morph into whatever you think the dude in question needs you to be. You turn into a character. Which makes sense since you’ve pretty much made the guy a character too– seeing as though you don’t even know him… yet!

In this case, I would have played the part of the coquettish intellectual to get the sexy brooding arty guy.

Yes, years ago, I would have done that. But by the time I was single and Aaron and I became officially acquainted… I’d grown up. And at this point in my life, I’m able to be the same person in every situation. I’m only able/willing to be me. As opposed to what I used to do; become different versions of myself depending on who I hung out with. Compartmentalizing my groups of friends and who they think I am/thought i was/expected me to be. Fuck, that shit was exhausting. Nowadays, I don’t have the energy to morph and change to someones liking. Plus, I’m probs totally wrong about what I’m assuming they even like anyways.

Aaron seemed so exclusive. Like the coolest clique at high school that you want to be a part of sooo bad. He seemed so deep, and potentially angry (about WHAT, I had NO idea… but I was eager and willing to find out!) He seemed tortured and interesting and ALL those other things girls project onto good looking slender stylish guys who may or may not love coffee, are potentially ex junkies, and/or possible insomniacs.

But often times when a girl finally does get close enough to the broody dude in question, they quickly realize that his quiet exterior is not actually a cover up for all the amazing thoughts and feelings lurking beneath the surface- it is in fact all a sham. Cuz what his quiet nature REALLY meant was: there was NOTHING going on in there. And in fact: what you see is what you get! But this was not so with Aaron Rose.

On a beautiful day in Los Angeles, we met up to mutually interview one another. I (obviously) interviewed him for imboycrazy.com, while he interviewed me for ANPQuarterly, the epic magazine he co-edits. I’m so proud and honored to be in it! And PS: the article he wrote about me is AMAZING! (thank you Aaron)

I was sooo nervous!  I IMMEDIATLY decided to call our hang out sesh a date, (as if THAT might put me more at ease) and he TOTALLY didn’t mind! But more importantly, what I found out during our mock date, is that he’s not a dick! He’s shy and sweet and charming and funny and interesting. And better yet: none of these happy surprises made him less sexy. Instead I saw that he’s much more special and desirable then the bizarro picture I’d painted of him in my minds eye. With the actual Aaron Rose, I could be myself and not worry about playing some ridiculous part. What a relief!

Watch the video and click on the links to learn all you possibly can about: Aaron Rose. You’re welcome. xo

REMEMBERING NATE (part 3):

hangin’ with nate PART 1: from alexi wasser on Vimeo.

hangin’ with nate – part deux: from alexi wasser on Vimeo.

He’s NOT dead. He just moved to Berlin.
I love you Nate. I miss you so much.

Click HERE to friend him on facebook. He’s a babe. And he’s single.



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