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You’re young, you’re adorable, and you have your whole life ahead of you- before you have ties you can’t cut and responsibilities that weigh you down. and even if you NEVER have ANY of those things holding you back, the time is NOW to start (one at a time?) dating one of each type of the guys I’ve listed below. You’re welcome! Ready, set, go:

1. a fireman.

2. a laker.

3. a guy with a big private.

4. a top tier rapper.

5. a front man.

6. a drummer.

7. a mechanic.

8. a really sexy dumb guy with a tan who could be mistaken for a cowboy or a prostitute.

9. a movie star.

10. a nerd.

11. a man (young OR old) with salt and pepper hair.

12. an Asian guy with long hair who defies every stereotype.

13. a really funny guy.

14. a super femme straight guy.

15. a broody writer.

16. an 18 year old.

17. a 22yr old.

18. a guy who looks like a sexy vampire.

19. a painter.

20. a lawyer.

21. a guy with a motorcycle.

22. a guy with a vespa.

23. a guy with a cleft palette.

24. a guy who loves his mom.

25. a chef. but only for a brief period, so the time to lose the weight you’ve gained before you’re on to the next guy is minimal.

26. A guy who drives a prius.

27. a guy who drives a range rover.

28. a guy who has a driver.

29. a skateboarder (I.E. a guy who drives a skateboard) with abs of steel.

30. a guy with a neck tattoo.

31. a romantic.

32. a guy with a lisp.

33. a guy who doesn’t wear deodorant or cologne.

34. a guy who loves you.

35. a guy you don’t love, but the sex is amazing.

36. the owner of a major business/company.

37. a guy with a cat.

38. a guy with no dog.

39. a guy who eats healthy.

40. a surfer with shoulder length sun bleached blond hair.

41. Lenny kravitz.

42. a guy named: max, Simon, jasper, Wes, roman, Nate, Spencer, or Felix.

43. not a guy with dread locks.

44. a guy who would NEVER give up coffee, cuz he LOVES it/knows it’s so great!

45. a guy who wears, or just LOOKS like he’s wearing eyeliner.

46. a guy with a cool/great family that you really like, who really like you too.

47. an english guy.

48. a french guy. Only so you can learn the language while sexxxing and laying around in bed between kisses.

49. a red head.

50. an older man.

51. a younger man.

By: boycrazy on April 19, 2011
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64 Responses to “one of each- a single girls dating checklist:”

  1. BLU LAMBO, on April 19th, 2011 at 8:51 am Said:

    GUYS WITH NECK TATTOOS ARE HOTTTT


  2. wannabe Tucker, on April 19th, 2011 at 9:49 am Said:

    what about the fat kid? Its bad enough he is the last picked for kick ball.


  3. Christiana, on April 19th, 2011 at 10:31 am Said:

    Gothic guys are hot :D


  4. Tanya, on April 19th, 2011 at 10:57 am Said:

    I am down with #’s: 11,15,22,24,30,34,39,46.48,49 and maybe #35.

    ah, If only I can find some quality guys:(


  5. Sonia, on April 19th, 2011 at 12:03 pm Said:

    may i have a man who is combined with #13, 31, 34, 36, 39, 40, 46? :D daydreaming


  6. Lynae, on April 19th, 2011 at 12:49 pm Said:

    Ah thank goodness, I’ve done so many. saw you at lacoste party but was too shy to say hi… so hi!


  7. Brigette, on April 19th, 2011 at 12:57 pm Said:

    22 year olds are my favorite.
    I would agree with missing a fat kid in there.
    And a sailor/sea-faring man. Preferably from the East Coast.


  8. HeyitsAlexP, on April 19th, 2011 at 1:20 pm Said:

    That is so many, I’m going to have to date at least 5 guys at the same time to get this all done.


  9. NoahP, on April 19th, 2011 at 1:26 pm Said:

    What about a midget and a bank robber? Or a ballet dancer/coach, like that dude from Black Swan?


  10. Petr, on April 19th, 2011 at 1:29 pm Said:

    22 year old possible boy babe here, knock #17 off your list ladies!


  11. Lillian, on April 19th, 2011 at 1:45 pm Said:

    You are so anglocentric! No dreads? Why not just say no black dudes


  12. uh, on April 19th, 2011 at 2:07 pm Said:

    ^and you are stereotyping. all black people have dreads? only black people have dreads?


  13. boycrazy, on April 19th, 2011 at 2:10 pm Said:

    wha? u r so wrong it’s funny.


  14. boycrazy, on April 19th, 2011 at 2:14 pm Said:

    i’m ALL about black dudes! look at the list again, you think there are no black dudes who are english, or french? you think that there are no black dudes WITHOUT dreads? you think there are no black rappers or laker players or firemen, or no black dudes with nice families or no nice black guys who have big privates?! really, i think this list CATERS to dating a black man/boy. geeze louise! xo


  15. Lillian, on April 19th, 2011 at 2:15 pm Said:

    No but dreads are an integral part of black culture… And are also super sexy on many black men I’ve known. I think you are confused about what exactly generalization is. I like the free form light and joking vibe of this blog, but sometimes in the name of being funny some mistakes are made that aren’t funny or witty. Like Lenny krAvitz/no dreads doesn’t make sense


  16. girlcrzy, on April 19th, 2011 at 2:18 pm Said:

    So Alexi, how much of the list have you completed?


  17. Lillian, on April 19th, 2011 at 2:18 pm Said:

    Like to me saying no dreads is like saying no kinky hair which I have and hurts my feelings to read on a blog I look at


  18. mmmtard, on April 19th, 2011 at 2:19 pm Said:

    no love for the felons?


  19. please, on April 19th, 2011 at 2:23 pm Said:

    Lil, hun, please just give it up already. You are wrong on approximately 5 million levels, and that’s just a rough estimate


  20. lillian, on April 19th, 2011 at 2:29 pm Said:

    hahaha but lenny kravitz had dreads!!!


  21. Miss b, on April 19th, 2011 at 3:38 pm Said:

    So what if I date a 22yr old Nerd Fireman with no dog, and drives a range rover who’s English, and has a cleft palette.

    Can I cross off 7 of the list.


  22. Mathias, on April 19th, 2011 at 3:39 pm Said:

    I like this list because I fulfill a lot of those #’s


  23. Lita, on April 19th, 2011 at 3:40 pm Said:

    “…no nice black guys who have big privates?!” Wups, racist assumption/caricature again!


  24. Steven Augustine, on April 19th, 2011 at 4:11 pm Said:

    ***“…no nice black guys who have big privates?!” Wups, racist assumption/caricature again!***

    Asking the rhetorical question, with #3 in mind, is not racist… but automatically noticing the “connection” (black guys + big privates), in *your* mind, just might be! laugh

    All the violent, hate-spitting racism on the Web and you pick on AW? Give the nice lady a break! We BOCWBP (Bloggers of Color With Big Privates) appreciate her.


  25. Lita, on April 19th, 2011 at 5:30 pm Said:

    Blogger: “Can I ask you question, are you black?”
    Caller: “Yeah.”
    Blogger: “You got a big black dick?”
    Caller: “It’s all right…”

    And then he hung up… Just one of MANY examples we could illustrate through here… And not sure about the “connection” but it’s certainly a convenient opportunity to flatter yourself and speak on behalf of everyone else who DOESN’T exactly appreciate it! Which I imagine is probably the purpose of your own blog too… Remember, Steven, it’s the subtle racism that counts…


  26. AmanitaPunk, on April 19th, 2011 at 5:39 pm Said:

    I’m so glad I’m done with some of the list, the number 1 is the best though…and I know I’m lucky cause not every girl in the world can say they did it..I did…and I go to heaven every time I remember how amazing the sex was ^^


  27. Sasha Lane, on April 19th, 2011 at 6:02 pm Said:

    Oh, wow. Guess I have tons of work to do? You didn’t include a super shy guy!


  28. Erin Fitz, on April 19th, 2011 at 6:10 pm Said:

    @Lillian I’m SURE she meant white boy hippie/ravers with dreads…sure of it. TG, totally gross


  29. Erin Fitz, on April 19th, 2011 at 6:11 pm Said:

    Also, I love this post and it makes me wish I was younger…


  30. Guy, on April 19th, 2011 at 7:07 pm Said:

    What about a nice short guy?
    do it


  31. Olivia, on April 19th, 2011 at 7:32 pm Said:

    Alexi, I WANT to date all these dudes, but where do I find them??


  32. mmmtard, on April 19th, 2011 at 9:02 pm Said:

    I don’t have a driver but I do have two different putters!


  33. Elisa, on April 19th, 2011 at 9:59 pm Said:

    i love salt & pepper haired men and red heads…what about a construction worker? and what’s wrong with dreadlocks? i’ve had the biggest crush on these two guys who totally rock dreads, one’s an asian kid and the other one is a soccer player.

    “…big private.” I had to giggle, that sounded soo elementary.

    and did i read number 33 correctly, a guy who DOESNT wear deodorant, I cant do that, ew, lol.


  34. Semi-Ryukyu, on April 19th, 2011 at 10:17 pm Said:

    Every dude has a fireman…

    And don’t pass on Mr. Right, just cuz you met him before completing the list.


  35. Steven Augustine, on April 20th, 2011 at 2:02 am Said:

    “Remember, Steven, it’s the subtle racism that counts…”

    Thanks, Lita… as a person of color, I required that tip! (laugh). Srsly: the race debate is too explosively complicated (and tainted with the horrors of recent history) to do it any justice in this thread. But sloshing the term “racist!” around, like sulfuric acid in a coffee cup, just waiting to toss it on the first person who says/writes something you’re not sure about… not cool?

    I mean, I personally think the movie “Precious” is racist (and the “Wire” was, too, imo) but I wouldn’t call you a racist for thinking you were doing a good deed by liking either one! (wink)


  36. Steven Augustine, on April 20th, 2011 at 2:20 am Said:

    “Which I imagine is probably the purpose of your own blog too… ”

    The “purpose” of *my* blog is to write whatever the fuck I feel like writing.


  37. Lita, on April 20th, 2011 at 6:19 am Said:

    Self satisfied too! Great, as a POC, you made it clear to me that your blog all about numero uno, which might explain your impulse to shoot down a criticism that isn’t. But at least, with respect to The Wire and Precious, we can agree on two points, Steven. In terms of “liking” the content, that depends on one’s mode of appreciation. And to the CREATORS of that content, well that’s a different story, those people are almost assuredly racist no matter how much it’s negated and denied. So, no, I’m pretty sure that it is what I’m highlighting it out to be. And you would seem to intend well, but perhaps your defense is sexually motivated? If it’s not you should really get out of mindlock mode, bro. Take a look around! The entire blog devoted to dividing people by sex, class, and race! I’m just looking to wake a few people up before we discover this garbage too, pumped all over the mass culture as truth, just like the aforementioned content, which we both know it couldn’t be the furthest from! It’s okay to parse and polemicize something, duuuuuuude. Especially if your critique is spot on, RIGHT. That’s what the *THREAD* is here for…


  38. Steven Augustine, on April 20th, 2011 at 7:29 am Said:

    Lita!

    You seem to have started a blistering critique in its middle and wrapped it up there.

    My “defense” of the content on this blog isn’t sexually motivated… I defend/attack online presentations quite often and without ever wanting to fuck anybody other than my gorgeous wife (got all the wild perversions out of my system before we got married), who fucks me like I’ve never been fucked and makes a mean carrot-ginger-apple juice, too. She even appeared on a popular soap in a walk-on part as *herself*… that’s how hot she is. So: nope. Send your Ronco Mindreader (19.95!) back for a refund, Lita!

    “I’m just looking to wake a few people up before we discover this garbage too, pumped all over the mass culture as truth…”

    Lita, dearest: you want to protect the mass-culture from the “garbage” of BoyCrazy? The Mass Culture IS Garbage! Do you live in a Quaker village?

    This blog isn’t dividing people… people are divided already. I think the hysterical PC fear of saying anything “offensive” “in public” is more of a divider than AW asking a COC (caller of color), quasi-flirtatiously, if his cock is tall, grande or venti.

    If I were you, I’d start with indicting Fiddy and Snoop for monetizing the antebellum Mandingo archetype, which is not just one winking joke but a complex of toxic projections (including rape, murder and intellectual inferiority). Oh and Tracy Morgan reminds me of Jack Benny’s Jim Crow manservant Rochester (eye-bulges and all). Can you even *be* a POC and appear in a Hollywood flick or TV hit without somehow advancing the mass-encoding of the racist-eugenic project? Prolly not. The North American culture is crypto-managed by Nazis, after all (they didn’t lose the war, they re-located), but that’s another thread on another blog…

    I’m not saying AW is Malcolm X. I’m saying that what makes her cool is that she isn’t afraid/embarrassed to entertain, in public, the notion of an adam-naked Black dude with a tremendous erection, in a friendly fashion; that’s only an insult if she can’t see/tolerate Black dudes any other way… and I see no evidence of that. It’s now up to witty Black dudes (hung or not… no pun intended) to leave comments here in order to extend the terms of imaginative interaction.

    Which is what I’m doing here.

    RE: “Self-satisfied, too!” Indeed.


  39. Steven Augustine, on April 20th, 2011 at 7:44 am Said:

    Also, Lita, this is a damned-fine point that you’ve skipped, conveniently, from the Blogowner herself:

    “i’m ALL about black dudes! look at the list again, you think there are no black dudes who are english, or french? you think that there are no black dudes WITHOUT dreads? you think there are no black rappers or laker players or firemen, or no black dudes with nice families or no nice black guys who have big privates?! really, i think this list CATERS to dating a black man/boy.”

    If you looked at that list and *didn’t* see Black Dudes (except the ones with huge soup-shooters), aren’t *you* being ‘racist’?


  40. Monton, on April 20th, 2011 at 9:19 am Said:

    What about the starving artists!? The passionate musicians!?


  41. Jerome Lawrence, on April 20th, 2011 at 10:20 am Said:

    After reading and thoroughly enjoying Steven and Lita, I think ACW should be on the list.


  42. Lóa-Lóa, on April 20th, 2011 at 11:39 am Said:

    21 down, 30 to go. damn that’s a good list.


  43. adele, on April 20th, 2011 at 1:24 pm Said:

    THIS SUCKS! WASTE OF TIME. RAUNCHY WOMEN SHOULD JUST GO HAVE SEX, NOT SITTING IN FRONT OF UR COMPUTERS TALKING ABOUT GUYS YOU “WOULD” DATE


  44. Lita, on April 20th, 2011 at 1:27 pm Said:

    “None calls for justice, nor any pleads for truth: they trust in vanity, and speak lies; they conceive mischief, and bring forth iniquity.” –ISSAIAH 59:4

    I know, Steve, the producers of Precious were all black people too, when well over fifty percent them probably weren’t even black. There’s a REASON why these people don’t put their pictures up on IMDB. Nevertheless it was essential that we get the image of Precious out there, right? C’mon son, you know the deal… The public display isn’t always the private reality, but the truth usually comes to view one way or the other. My guess is the woman doesn’t have single pic of herself in the vast catalogue that showing her rolling out with a black dude. She just thinks she wants to because she’s a LAKERS fan…

    So, “Don’t listen to your PARENTS kids, because BIG SISTER knows what’s best for you…” Sure she does… That’s right out of George Orwell, son. Just tryin’ to clue you in, friend… I don’t need to look at the list again, not at the risk of throwing up on my desk.


  45. pjrourk, on April 20th, 2011 at 2:03 pm Said:

    Hey lakers fans i hope that rapist kobe wins another championship,he also loves to sodomise white girls!Alexi since you are all about the black dudes this is your chance to expand your resume for your up coming career as an anal queen.


  46. Steven Augustine, on April 20th, 2011 at 2:04 pm Said:

    1. Lita: quoting the garbled antediluvian bullshit (re-written in English by Elizabethan Freemasons) that was foisted on North American slaves (by the descendants of the Elizabethan Freemasons) as a psychic control mechanism, is just too… ironic… in the context of this discussion.

    2. I don’t care if AW has ever actually kissed a Black kickstand any more than I care whether you’ve waxed a Basque kootchie: neither act would prove or disprove charges of racism against either of you.

    3. Why not seek out some ignorant fucking Bible-quoting cat blogs? I’m sure the Bearded, Vaguely-Levantine, Anus-Free Sky Giant will allow it.


  47. Lita, on April 20th, 2011 at 3:14 pm Said:

    Hey Steven… Sounds like you’re next in line direct Precious 2. Put this right up on the top or your resume there… “resistant to truth…” The King James Bible is a piece of canonical literature, which means it has value above and beyond liturgical useage. But you wouldn’t know that, since like AW, you spew out bullshit on your blog all day while you don’t bother to read up on anything else… So you’re the one coming out looking like a Freemason here, supporting this bullshit. You don’t have to believe in God to the catch meaning from the Word… But again, I wouldn’t expect you to know that, given your less than acumen point of view.


  48. Steven Augustine, on April 20th, 2011 at 3:36 pm Said:

    “given your less than acumen point of view”

    QED, Lita. QED


  49. spelling nazi, on April 20th, 2011 at 7:25 pm Said:

    1) I love this
    2) No one mentioned the typo on #29


  50. Arja Papaya, on April 20th, 2011 at 9:09 pm Said:

    what’s wrong with the dreadlock guys? :/


  51. Lady Blue, on April 21st, 2011 at 1:03 am Said:

    I would probably pass on most of these, but then again I’m looking for stability, and not a list of 51 mostly uninteresting guys to smash.

    Glad to see you up to your usual Alexi!


  52. Little Miss, on April 21st, 2011 at 4:22 pm Said:

    ahh things like these always, always are able to crack me up!. I love them. Every guy, and any guy I will love.
    NeuroticDelirium.com

    checkk meehh out.


  53. pj rourk, on April 22nd, 2011 at 3:13 pm Said:

    Hey white girls after getting fucked by a black dude will you get up and make him a sandwitch?Maybe he’ll get up first and tape a 10 dollar bill to your forehead for cab fare,ah what a gentleman. Hey how long is it gonna take lamar odem to find out he married a tranny?Wait till he tries to fuck her cunt instead of her ass,SURPRISE!!


  54. bryanna_leigh, on April 22nd, 2011 at 5:36 pm Said:

    why did this entry turn into a post about black dudes?

    gosh..fkking annoying..


  55. narayan l, on April 23rd, 2011 at 2:10 am Said:

    funny how this post had started such an uproar! i just thought to checklist it off on my blog for what i might have or have not qualified as, in the past or now.

    http://dancingfeelsgood.tumblr.com/


  56. spencer, on April 23rd, 2011 at 1:34 pm Said:

    Hey! I’m a 22 year old skateboarding frontman spencer who loves his mom..

    But why did you group us (spencers) in with all those other quirky names? We are on out own level obviously


  57. Helena, on April 24th, 2011 at 8:56 pm Said:

    * A professional sponsored surfer
    * A super religious guy

    Really, do it.


  58. Toni Alayne, on April 25th, 2011 at 7:21 am Said:

    … Way ahead of you :)


  59. josie, on April 26th, 2011 at 1:43 am Said:

    guys who ride bikes, make pizza and give flowers often are SUPER HOTT (e.g. my man). <3


  60. Bridget Scherr, on May 3rd, 2011 at 12:17 am Said:

    Guys named Simon don’t know how to kiss and have problems making emotional connections.


  61. gab, on May 5th, 2011 at 10:29 am Said:

    a surfer with shoulder length sun bleached blond hair

    HALLELUJAH


  62. Brandon, on May 30th, 2011 at 6:16 pm Said:

    “a skateboarder with stolen abs”


  63. Nikki, on June 8th, 2011 at 7:07 pm Said:

    Now, someone date me. So I can finish this list ? :D


  64. Anneliese Hackenmiller, on July 30th, 2011 at 9:44 pm Said:

    LOL Fantastic Wonderful Tract Morgan is one amazing and extremely funny perservere comedian. He could keep me in stitches for hours and give me a good time whenever great job


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