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Dear Alexi

I want to share very hard but important lessons learned this year:

1. Sometimes that “feeling” in the pit of your stomach, is just plain ol awkwardness.

2. Sometimes it’s not magic or fate, but a coincidence.

3. Sometimes he doesn’t secretly love you, and genuinely LIKES you as a friend because you’re awesome.

4. Sometimes there is a bit of sexual tension, but then again you are wearing a tight-ass dress.  Can you blame him for looking?

5. Sometimes he talks to you because you are down to earth, not because he wants to be your boyfriend.


Just wanted to share some honest truths. You are a brave soul, keep it coming!


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10 Responses to “reader submission: ‘some honest truths’”

  1. This is so true. Been in a similiar situation myself for a way too long period of time. at some point i just realized that i had to move on.

    xx


  2. There is a certain girl power that covers it all. FEMALE INTUITION. Never doubt it, dismiss it or second guess it.

    Sincerely,

    Dr. Dan


  3. Number five bought it home.


  4. This is so true.

    Sometimes they aren’t secretly in love with you, they’re just talking to you because they’re trying to get in your pants.

    Sometimes they aren’t as amazing as you think they are, because they’re actually selfish liars.

    You’re right. It’s not magic, it’s just coincidental timing that conveniently lends itself to you applying your own fantasies and bizarre logic that makes you feel better about yourself and your feelings.

    Good post. Some refreshing honesty is just the wake up call we need sometimes. I just wish I’d read this post 24 hours earlier.


  5. Made it mine:) Hardest lessons to learn when the guy is also awesome, but friends are great too!


  6. By the way Ms. Wasser I have a very interesting book you.

    Sincerely,

    Dr. Dan :)


  7. So sweet it’s dark slider.


  8. what the hell is dark slider?


  9. ALEXI you are my Gaurdian Angel. Ignore Lisa I’m sure she is a princess but nothing beats an Angel. Oh and please ignore the cap lock of your name; I’m just excited to see you…yes in that way. Trust me I would go to hell and back for you…for Lisa I would just have tea…so when are we finally going to meet…I’m not stalking you or anything but sometimes chasing unrequited love can be so fun.


  10. Oh and Angel Anna have faith I’m sure if he spends so much time with you he more than just likes you…he probably wants to spend eternity with you…yes that includes watching cartoons and baking the occasional cup cake with you…but if he starts talking about jelly and American pie that’s when he is waaay too crazy about you…and no not in that way or maybe in that way…it’s your preference not his because he probably eats too many sandwiches…yes I accept you apology…whatever that means…


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