tonight: ‘boycrazy radio!’ w/ special guests dave & marshall from ‘olin & the moon’

tonight/wednesday february 22,2012 9pm pst

join me, dave labrel & marshall vore

from ‘olin & the moon’

who knows what epic or horrible advice they may or may not give you during the show… but i guarantee it will be entertaining. but what’s most important is that they are both babes who are in a cool band. yeah, you’re welcome!

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& totally call in so we can discuss & solve all your love/life/dating problems

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ttyl, xoxo

reader submission: ‘am i still being used even though we’re both getting what we want?’

So i just started my freshman year of college. i came in not a virgin, i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of senior year no big deal. i get that the first time is a big deal but what about the times after? when i meet guys here i know what it will ultimately lead to after a quick make out session so why resist?

i met this guy who also goes to my school and after making out twice i decided to give him my blessing. we did the birds and the bees at 4 am one night after he texted me asking to come over. we obviously both enjoyed ourselves because we did it again. but it was the same exact scenario, getting a text at 4 am and finishing the job and then watching him leave after a quick chat afterwards. i’m cool with being all casual and anti-relationship but whats the limit? am i still being used even though we’re both getting what we want?

please help me! your advice is much appreciated.

love,
confused fresh meat

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the blind leading the blind (part 81):

1. if you read inspirational/self-help quotes like “don’t take no for an answer” and “never let anyone tell you you can’t do what you want” in the narrative voice of a rapist, it really changes everything.

2. dear future me: I will never get married. but I WILL throw many parties, have tons of friends, and fall crazy hard in love as many times as possible, for as long as possible.

3. i know i’m supposed to LOVE it, but i REFUSE to use the word “ADORKABLE”.

4. if it doesn’t look good on the model, it’s not gonna look good on you.

5. just say ‘no’ to sweatpants. always.

6. just say ‘no’ to married men. always.

7. there is nothing less masculine than camping out in front of a street wear store to be the first in line to get limited edition sneakers. #clitoralhardoff

8. i love a man in a suit… until I find out he works for the church.

9. i wonder if i’ll ever NOT want to cringe when i hear white people say ‘swagger’.

10. please don’t ask me if i want to talk to the person you’re standing next to while you’re on the phone with me! i thought you were my friend! i barely have the energy to speak to you. of COURSE i don’t want to talk to the person you’re with! fuck!

tonight: ‘boycrazy radio!’

CALL ME TONIGHT…

WEDNESDAY FEBRUARY 15, 2012

DURING BOYCRAZY RADIO

9PM PST/12AM EST

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OR CALL TOLL FREE:

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pps: if you can’t call during the show,

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we’ll bro out, role play,

and discuss ALL your love, sex, dating,

and life dilemmas!

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be my valentine?

as simple as a crush…

It’s not that it’s bad to be alone (i should say ‘single’, not ‘alone’). it’s not. but the time just after a break up is a transitional period. one that requires getting used to not having someone to check in with/love/spend time with. it leaves you with an empty space in your heart. it doesn’t mean you’re weak or lame or anything. it just means you need to recover for a sec. i was sitting around talking to one of my best girlfriends who’s also single and we both agreed that it would just be nice to have a ‘crush’. neither of us do, but it would be nice. i suppose having a crush would be nice because it feeds the ego; makes you hopeful; makes you feel less alone. in a way, it roots you/is grounding. it takes the edge off occasional pangs of loneliness. at least having a crush gives you someone to hold in your heart… even when it’s not real, may never become real, and ultimately: you’re single and not tied to anyone.

valentine wishes/birthday dreams:

ALEXI’S BIRTHDAY / VALENTINE’S DAY WISH LIST:

•an epic make-out

•a meaningful experience with someone i like

•a trip to hawaii

•roses, tea roses, any flowers! i love flowers! sent to me as a surprise, or given to me whenever/however!

•dinner at mozza, matsuhisa, mortons, mastros, pace, lil doms

•coffee in the canyon, at joans on third, at urth

•drinks with my best friends

•karaoke with my best friends

•cake at sweet lady jane

•large black breakfast at tiffany’s style sunglasses

•large tortoise-shell wayfarers ray bans

•a bull horn

•burberry ‘manston’ trench coat size 6 US trench – below the knee

•i-phone 

•creme de la mer eye cream

•jumbo black classic Chanel bag with GOLD hardware

•black Balenciaga ‘velo’ bag

•Gift cards for Lingerie:

la perla

kiki of Montparnasse

victoria’s secret 

•Gift cards for other stuff that makes me happy:

J Crew

Urban Outfitters

Club Monaco

Madewell

barney’s

Fresh

Target

M cafe

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alexi wasser

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TONIGHT: ‘boycrazy radio’ w/ guest FATHER JOHN MISTY

CALL ME TONIGHT…

WEDNESDAY FEBRUARY 8, 2012 / 9-10pm PST

DURING  BOYCRAZY RADIO

WITH SPECIAL GUEST ‘FATHER JOHN MISTY’:

visit subpop.com to download his song

‘Hollywood Forever Cemetery Sings’

DIAL:

1(646) 378-0649

OR CALL TOLL FREE:

1(877) 569-3588

ps: if you’re in another country,

you can call me using gmail or skype!

pps: if you can’t call during the show,

leave me a message on my NEW toll free

‘boycrazy voice-mailbox’ 1(888)666-2045

we’ll bro out, role play,

and discuss ALL your love, sex, dating,

and life dilemmas!

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reader submission: ‘HELP: I tried masturbating, but I don’t feel anything!’

Hey Alexi,
My friends listen to your podcast and rave about your blog all the time. I love reading it and it has been a huge inspiration to me. I understand you’re probably very busy, but I was wondering if you could give me some advice. I’ve been dating this guy for four years and we love each other very much. I am 19 years old and in college dealing with a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. I haven’t been ready to have sex and he has patiently waited and has supported me throughout our entire relationship. I am now ready to have sex. I have tried masturbating, but I don’t feel anything. It just feels like a finger moving inside of me. I’m scared I won’t enjoy sex with him. I’m scared that I’ll just have to grit my teeth the whole time and pretend like I’m enjoying myself. In one of your posts you said that we should learn how to finger ourselves so that we understand more about our body, but from what I’ve learned so far… I’m not going to enjoy sex at all. I’m also scared about my hymen breaking. I don’t know how much it’s going to hurt. I want both my boyfriend and I to enjoy ourselves. If I can’t even enjoy fingering myself how am I going to enjoy sex? What am I doing wrong? -Anonymous

JOIN THE I’M BOYCRAZY CONVERSATION! 

IF YOU WANNA SUBMIT SOMETHING, I’D LOVE TO SEE IT AND POST IT!

I PREFER VIDEO SUBMISSIONS- UNDER 3 MINUTES:

AND THIS DOESN’T MEAN YOU SEXY/SILLY DANCING IN FRONT OF YOUR COMPUTER!

TELL ME SOMETHING! WHAT ARE YOU FEELING/NOTICING?

WHAT ARE YOU THINKING? WHAT’S BOTHERING YOU?

E MAIL ME @ [email protected]

write ‘make it YOURS monday’ in the heading (for videos)

OR ‘reader submission’ (for written submissions)

PS:

• follow me on twitter @imboycrazy

• call me and leave a voice message: 888 666-2045

(ask me a question, tell me a secret, or say something neat)

I LOVE YOU

feeling my feelings…

I don’t hate you. But as the days go by since we ended things, things are coming up for me. I felt ok with my decision. It felt logical and right. In a way I felt relieved. But I forget that I have a tendency to have latent emotions. They can spring up days, weeks, months, or sometimes even years after the scenario I should have been emotional about. What I feel right now is disappointment. I feel disappointed in you. I feel slightly betrayed. I never hid who I was from you. I never pretended to be anything I wasn’t. And as our time together, filled with so many beautiful moments, progressed - I watched you learn how to communicate. Little by little I learned about your comfort level and insecurities. I saw u slowly but surely speak up for yourself a teeny tiny bit and tell me about what made you cringe, or uncomfortable. And as I got to know you, the recurring theme of your discomfort was/is the subject of sex and feelings and intimacy. Hmmm. Good to know, but did you ever stop to acknowledge that the girl you fell in love with is riveted, obsessed, and fascinated by all the topics that make you squirm? What blinded you? I don’t think I’m remarkably beautiful. I mean, I don’t want to be rude to myself, so I’ll stop there. Was it a combo of how great our sex was, my being so many things you’re not/wish you could be? I know I scared you slightly, and was a bit intimidating. But I never wanted to be. I thought you could handle me. So many days and nights, under the covers and tangled in sheets telling one another we want to be together forever. But what did we know about ‘forever’? At times I know I came across as cold because I would say, ‘I don’t want to put the pressure of forever on us. I just want us to be happy now, for as many days as we can be. For as many days that string together.’ And see? We took the time to get to know each other and you finally took the blinders off long enough to see me… And it was not for you. And that’s fine. But I always saw you. Even on our first date, I thought to myself ‘I’m too much for him.’ see how powerful gut reactions and intuition are? But I had to suss it out. Just like you did. But I never deceived myself. I never ignored any aspects about you. I get you. You are a wonderful man. And during our time together I paid very close attention to what I was learning from you: for a very long time I have known/accepted that every love affair is an opportunity to learn something about myself (what I need, what I want, what works/doesn’t work for me) and what I learned from YOU is what it feels like to be with someone who is kind, and AVAILABLE: emotionally/physically. I learned what it feels like to feel safe with a man. To be treated like a princess. To be with someone with strong morals, and someone who would do anything for me. Someone who would pick me up if I was stranded on the side of the road, someone who brought me flowers and took me to dinner. Someone who sexxxed me so beautifully and kissed every inch of me. All this is epic. Was epic. But when differences come up that are too real, too fundamental… That’s when a harsh reality surfaces: Sometimes love just isn’t enough.



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