Dear Alexi,

First off, I love reading your blog, your blind leading the blind posts always make my days, I am always eagerly awaiting new ones.

Lately, I feel that I have zero confidence. I think it’s funny how one day I can think I’m beautiful and skinny and the next day think I’m not worth looking at.

I crave boys attention, don’t we all? I want to be noticed, to be pretty, and to maybe land a guy as awesome as I think I am.

My friend told me that I always date down. Perhaps, but I feel that it’s way more important to feel pretty, and happy, and secure around a boy who may not be as attractive as you, but dresses way nice, and always has something positive to say. He brings out an energy in you that you don’t have around anyone else. But then there’s the side of me that thinks that she has a point, that I do date down. I feel that any attractive boy I meet has zero brain cells and cannot keep a conversation, and/or just wants ass. Is there such thing as an attractive guy who genuinely wants to be with me, and not in a sexual way? Maybe I’m jaded because any attractive boy I’ve been with was only about the ass.

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By: boycrazy on August 29, 2011
Tags: reader submission
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recently i experienced a moment of clarity about myself. for a split second, i discovered some of the reasons i am the way i am; why i do the things i do; and how i became the person i am today. for whatever reason, i tapped into myself (no, i’m not talking about masturbating- but probably that too) and saw myself clearly. all of a sudden, it dawned on me: for as long as i can remember, i’d been the perfect blend of SUPER DUPER self conscious AND a people pleaser.

i remember not feeling comfortable with silence. i always felt an intense need to fill every moment with words or laughter. and at some point, i made an unconscious decision to cope and take control of this debilitating/painful/heavy state i was in. the fear and self consciousness was just too much and something shifted in me. so what did i do? well, whenever i needed to fill the scary silence, i would do it by asking people questions, listening to the answers, making jokes, and complimenting people. this served me in many ways: asking lots of questions took away the unknown of scary silence and my inability to be calm/still within it. it alleviated my self consciousness/feelings of not being enough/thinking too much/putting a magnifying glass on every single situation i found myself in- because i was attacking it or at least coming up with a new and interesting/dynamic way to frame it.

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By: boycrazy on August 26, 2011
Tags: rant
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WEDNESDAY AUGUST 24, 2011

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By: boycrazy on August 24, 2011
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“These songs are a major part of the timeline of my life. i was obsessed with each song at various stages in my life. some were soundtracks to break-ups, some for falling in love, and others were written for me by boys i dated. i used to be way more emo, but i’ve always been/and am still a romantic, and i feel like all these songs are epic for making out, rolling around naked with whoever you’re crazy about, and weeping when you feel it necessary. good luck. i love you.” -alexi celine wasser

Sound Advice 109- click HERE to download

01. Get Me Away From Here I’m Dying by Belle and Sebastian
02. Fuzzy by Grant Lee Buffalo
03. Dramamine by Modest Mouse
04. I’m Single by Lil’ Wayne
05. Master of None by Beach House
06. First Breath After Coma by Explosions in the Sky
07. I Went to the Hospital by Cass McCombs
08. Flume by Bon Iver
09. La Vie En Rose by Edith Piaf
10. The Way You Look Tonight by Frank Sinatra
11. Stuck in the Middle With You by Stealers Wheel
12. Love is All I Am by Dawes
13. Waterloo Sunset by The Kinks
14. Cigarettes and Cola by Jet
15. I’m in Love With a Girl by Big Star
16. It’s All Over Now, Baby Blue by Them
17. Round One (Salem remix) by Gucci Mane
18. The Bells by The Make-Up
19. Lex by Ratatat
20. Rock Bottom Riser by Smog

By: boycrazy on August 23, 2011
Tags: mix cds, mix tapes, sound advice, the worlds best ever
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hi alexi,

i don’t know why i feel like sharing this with a random stranger, but for some reason it makes sense at 2 in the morning while i am delirious from studying:

it’s better to wake up alone than spend the night with someone who doesn’t give you everything you deserve.

this might not be especially profound or innovative, but i feel like it’s something that people need to understand. warm bodies just aren’t worth the messes they make. i’m far too sober to go in depth about the events which led this thought to transpire, but perhaps an idea to share with your readers. maybe if i’d realized this sooner, i wouldn’t be such a hot mess of a twenty two year old.

love, xxxx

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•if the idea doesn’t TOTALLY repulse you, follow me on twitter @imboycrazy

•call me and leave a voice message: 888 666-2045 ask me a question, tell me a secret, or say something neat.

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By: boycrazy on August 22, 2011
Tags: letter to alexi, make it yours mondays, reader submission
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1. instead of saying ‘i’m having my period’, start saying ‘i’m celebrating not being pregnant’. it’s so much more chic to speak in code.

2. no matter what you do, if you refer to anything as a ‘gig’… its’s over! the word ‘gig’ is as awful as the word ‘aspiring’.

3. a side affect of the morning after pill might not be weight loss, but it will prevent the weight of a child from forming in your womb! so that’s pretty cool!

4. all girls love reading their susan miller horoscopes on astrologyzone.com (and then comparing whether they’re a good match with a boy, depending on HIS sign). Case closed. deal with it!

5. tan pants? But why? and when i say ‘tan’, i am NOT referring to khaki. yes to khaki pants. yes all the way!

6. dear dudes who work in the whole foods parking lot, who pretend to be there to make the parking situation easier for everyone; you are NOT helpful! you are the opposite of helpful! in actuality, you are totally in my way! i am fully capable of getting in and out of my parking space WITHOUT YOU! and when you motion for me to back up, i find it completely condescending. it makes me furious! and you know what the worst part is? if i WERE to FULLY trust you and your hand gestures, motioning and beckoning me backwards, i bet you would TOTALLY let me crash into someone/something! so fuck you! and stay out of my goddam way! fuck! don’t even get me started on the people with the petitions outside of supermarkets! that’s a whole OTHER rant for ANOTHER day!

7. just because he’s tall enough to be a Laker, doesn’t mean he has a big dick. ALWAYS do the casual graze during the initial make-out.

8. ALL girls love chap stick. Case closed. deal with it!

9. always make sure the place you live appears photo shoot worthy and photo shoot ready. This can be achieved for cheap! either swiffer that shit yourself, or get a housekeeper for $60.

10. start referring to Los Angeles as ‘LaLa Land’ unless you prefer my previous recommendation: ‘tinseltown.’ either are great options.

PS: follow me on twitter @imboycrazy

PPS: leave me a message on my boycrazy voice-mailbox 888 666-2045

ask me a question, tell me a secret, or just say something neat.

xoxo

By: boycrazy on August 19, 2011
Tags: the blind leading the blind
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CALL ME TONIGHT

WEDNESDAY AUGUST 17, 2011

DURING BOYCRAZY RADIO

9PM PST/12AM EST

JUST CLICK HERE TO LISTEN

DIAL:

1(646) 378-0649

OR CALL TOLL FREE:

1(877) 569-3588

PS: if you’re in another country,

you can call me using gmail or skype!

PPS: if you can’t call during the show,

leave me a message on my NEW toll free

‘boycrazy voice-mailbox’ 1(888)666-2045

We’ll bro out, role play,

& discuss ALL your love, sex, dating,

and life dilemmas!

By: boycrazy on August 17, 2011
Tags: boycrazy radio, podcast, videos
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By: boycrazy on August 15, 2011
Tags: make it yours mondays, videos
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1. you know what I REALLY don’t appreciate? Unfinished hems! It’s not a style choice or a ‘look’… it’s just lazy!

2. a gentleman always pays for the morning after pill/abortion. i mean, it’s the LEAST he can do! a baby would be WAY more expensive.

3. sometimes you just have to surrender to letting a dude suck on your toes! take a breath, pray to god your feet aren’t disgustingly gross and then let him suck on your fucking toes! I mean, if he’s offering…  DO IT! Always be up for a new experience. Except anal sex. That’s not what ladies do.

4. don’t blow your nose with toilet paper and then wipe your privates with the SAME toilet paper! are you fucking kidding me? this is an infection WATING. TO. HAPPEN.

5. if your biggest problem is that your therapist is telling you to try to look in the mirror less, you’re doing alright.

6. you are a social climber. RELAX. it’s OK. Just recognize it. Everyone is… to a degree.

7. enough with the ridiculous kick-starters already! Sometimes you have to be your OWN kick-starter! FYI: i’m NOT referring to kick-starters for life or death surgery/medical attention. duh!

8. it’s not easy being a woman. We feel more; We have the unique capability of being able to think about every detail of everything, while multi tasking a million other things. And while we do all this, we are secretly dealing with whatever bullshit might be dribbling out of our puss for various reasons. We really do it all.

9. start referring to American Apparel (in speech and in writing) as ‘AM AP’.

10. dear AM AP, Urban O, and H & M: I know I frequent you guys more than I’d like to admit, but what’s with NOT LINING your dresses? How the fuck am I supposed to wear these things? Is it up to me to buy a slip? who wears slips anymore? Is it up to me to go to a fabric store, buy fabric, and have it sewn into the garment? Cuz that’s how you’re acting.  and it’s totally inconsiderate and rude on your end! And what shocks me most is everybody acting like this kind of cheap, lazy, illogical craftsmanship is totally acceptable behavior. are you trying to inspire twelve year olds who don’t know any better to run around with their little twelve year old pussies out? Cuz that’s basically what you’re advocating! It’s got to stop!

PS: follow me on twitter @imboycrazy

PPS: WHO IS THIS ALL KNOWING DREAM DUDE?

By: boycrazy on August 11, 2011
Tags: the blind leading the blind
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Sometimes things i REALLY wanna do/NEED to do fall on a wednesday night at 9pm pst! BUT…

i’ll be back next wed aug. 17! so call me next week!

until then, go out into the world and collect lots of stories!

be careful! use protection! don’t drink and drive!

and try to treat people the way you want to be treated!

follow me on twitter @imboycrazy

and leave me a voicemail to listen to/answer/address when i resume ‘boycrazy radio’ next week!

boycrazy voice mailbox: 888 666-2045

tell me a secret, tell me your problems, or just say something neat!

i love you!

i’ll leave you with this:

always look the best you possibly can! i mean, if you don’t want to fuck you, why would anyone else want to fuck you? … unless they’re a rapist, but i’m getting away from my point…. xoxo

By: boycrazy on August 10, 2011
Tags: boycrazy radio, podcast
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